If Kissing Your Kids On The Lips Is Wrong, Olivia Wilde Doesn’t Want To Be Right

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Actress latest in string of celeb parents shamed online

Olivia Wilde is the latest celebrity to come under fire for kissing their kids on the lips. In this case, the kid in question is three years old.

Everybody needs to calm down.

Wilde joins the long list of celebrities shamed for sharing photos of so-called inappropriate contact with their kids.

It’s happened to David Beckham and his wife, it’s happened to Hilary Duff or maybe it was the other Duff sister (or maybe it was Duffman?) and it’s happened to at least one of the Kardashians.

These are people with larger-than-average public profiles who risk the wrath of social media by daring to post parenting pictures that perverts find problematic. Sometimes the comments revolve around the way they interact with their kids, sometimes the way they dress them, but there is always some inexplicable ire, perhaps tinged with a little jealousy.

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Of course, celebrities aren’t the only parents who get judged on the regular. Have you ever posted a picture of your kid buckled into a car seat? Have your notifications stopped yet?

When you’re famous, the limelight has a way of exaggerating life, and the judgment served to parents on a daily basis is no exception. Share stuff at your own risk.

Usually the “crimes” provoking these neighborhood watchmen involve the safety of someone else’s children, i.e., the aforementioned car-seat technique or, in Olivia Wilde’s case, kissing her son “like [her] husband.”

Never mind that if a light peck on the lips is the way the actress kisses her husband, she wouldn’t have a kid to peck.

Do you kiss you kids on the lips? I do. My eldest son is seven years old and still very much a little boy. Every night at bedtime and every morning before he gets on the bus, we exchange a hug and a kiss, and he usually prefers to give me a peck on the lips. #Sorrynotsorry.

He’s seven. He’s still willing to give me affection. Eventually he’ll outgrow it, or it will embarrass him, and that will be that. I’ll allow it so long as he does.

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Is it weird to kiss your kids on the lips? It depends on the context. Do you know why it depends on the context? BECAUSE PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING DEPENDS ON THE CONTEXT.

When it comes to 99.99% of parents who are affectionate with their children, there’s nothing sexual about it. Have you ever kissed your dog or your cat or a favorite stuffed animal or the ground after a rocky flight? Newsflash: showing affection towards something doesn’t always mean you want to fuck it.

Leave Olivia Wilde and all the other parents alone.

Big Dad Rides Small Bike as a Tribute to Late Daughter

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On Friday at 10am, Peter Williams of Penzance, England began his 211-mile ride to raise money for The Brain Tumour Charity.

In 2015, Peter lost his 7-year-old daughter, Ellie, to a rare form of brain cancer, only six months after she was diagnosed.

To honor his daughter he decided to begin his ride at Bristol Children’s Hospital where Ellie was treated. He’s also making the entire trip on her little pink bike, which is only 20″ high. Given Peter is 6 feet tall, that’s going to make for an additional challenge, but he’s up for it.

Aside from a small modification to the bike’s seat, he’ll be riding the bike as-is. “My knees clear the handlebars by about half an inch so it’s going to be really tight, but it’s a great bike,” he told the BBC. He estimates the ride from Bristol to Land’s End will take him a week to complete.

Ellie loved cycling and impressed her dad at age three, when she was able to ride without training wheels.

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The bike he’ll be riding was her pride and joy – a present she received for her last Christmas.

So far Peter has raised £22,499 (roughly $30K US) through his JustGiving campaign, already doubling his £10,000 target.

What a guy! What a dad! Go, Peter, go!

If you’d like donate to Peter’s campaign, visit his JustGiving page.

If you want to learn more about where the money is going, you can visit The Brain Tumour Charity.

Father and Son Escape Burning Truck in the Nick of Time

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When 19-year old Minnesota man Kobe Sammons drove 500 miles to visit his family in Nebraska he thought he was leaving the heat from his welding job behind. When he arrived he told to his father, Jeremy, that his ride just wasn’t running right. So his dad hopped in the truck and the two went for a drive in hopes of discovering what the problem was.

A short while later they pulled over when Jeremy noticed smoke had entered the cabin of the truck. The smoke quickly turned to heat and it became apparent the engine compartment was on fire.

That’s when both men attempted to open their doors but they would not unlock.

The father wondered if this would be their final moments together.

“I told him he would have to break the glass or kick the door open. I couldn’t help him.” the elder Sammons told News Channel Nebraska.

But eventually Kobe was able to kick the door open.

“It was in those moments. Just when it had to open, the door opened.” Kobe’s dad said.

By the time firefighters arrived the truck was completely engulfed in flames. Authorities on the scene considered that the fire may have caused the doors’ unlocking mechanism to malfunction.

The truck can easily be replaced, the important thing is that this father and son duo escaped unharmed.

75-Year-Old Volunteer Literally Takes Catnaps at Animal Shelter

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If you’re a cat lover you’ll probably agree that 75-year-old Wisconsinite Terry Lauerman is living the dream. He spends most days volunteering at his local animal shelter snoozing with cats.

Lauerman begins his day at Safe Haven Pet Sanctuary where he brushes any cat that needs it, then ends up catching a few z’s with his feline friends. The cats and staff at the shelter love the service Lauerman provides and so do thousands of others because of a viral Facebook post about him.

Elizabeth Feldhausen, the founder of Safe Haven Pet Sanctuary, told The Huffington Post that Lauerman never signed up to be a volunteer but just showed up one day, armed with a cat brush and dream to help some kitties.

“He just walked in and started brushing,” Feldhausen said. “So eventually we told him he was an official volunteer and had him fill out our volunteer form.”

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Safe Haven is a cage-free, no-kill shelter aimed at rehabilitating cats with special needs who would likely be euthanized elsewhere. Feldhausen says Lauerman usually comes in for about three hours every day—he’ll start by brushing a cat but usually ends up dozing off.

“He sleeps for about an hour, then he’ll wake up and switch cats,”

The cats aren’t the only ones benefitting from his visits, though. “He said, [the brushing is] as great of an experience for him, as it is for them,” said Feldhausen.

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The post about Lauerman has received tons of positive attention and according to Feldhausen, they’ve received about $20,000 in donations since the post went viral.

While Lauerman is happy to have brought so much attention to Safe Haven, he wants people to know that there are plenty of other volunteers that put in hours of hard work to make sure the cats are loved and cared for.

Unlike them, however, Lauerman can do it in his sleep.

Father Figures: So Be It

“My money is tight living here in Silicon Valley.

My daughters are both really smart and take advanced classes, which takes a shit load of money for tests, materials and such. I too play the ‘money is tight’ card around holidays and birthdays, but I work my ass off and find side jobs. As many as I can to make sure they have the best day possible on those special occasions.

If that means not buying myself anything for the rest of my life, so be it.

They always come first, and I believe they will appreciate the struggles later on in life, and they’ll be better off for it.”

– Mauro Hernandez

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Dad’s Panoramic Photo of Daughter Goes Horribly Wrong and Viral

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With new phones constantly boasting advancements in camera technology, it’s no wonder some people have trouble keeping up—dads in particular.

Just ask 21-year-old Twitter user Simran. She recently came to terms with the fact that her father is a bit more technologically-challenged than she realized.

Here’s how Simran appears when she’s directing the photo shoot:

While on vacation her dad attempted to snap a unique picture of her. He insisted on trying out his iPhone X’s panoramic photo mode. As you probably expect, the photo didn’t turn out quite as planned.

“My dad told me to stand by the apples because he said he discovered a new way to take pano pics vertically,” Simran told Mashable. “I agreed to it and this was the result.”

“When he saw them he said ‘they look great’ and then I saw them and completely lost it. I mean, are you kidding me? I look like an Alien,” she said.

A number of people chimed in and made fun comparisons to some pretty unflattering images.

Clearly, Simran has been a good sport and we commend her dad for a bold attempt at harnessing advanced photo technology. But perhaps he should stick with the old fashioned point-and-shoot method from now on?